Deanna Beaver
I was going through some of my boxes from my teaching career when I found a treasure. Someone, many years ago, had gifted me a matted and framed poem, “The Legacy” by Dick Johnson. Although she didn’t write on the back of the frame, I will never forget who gave this to me. It hung in my children’s nursery for years and finally made its way to my many classrooms.
As I pondered over what to share with you this month, legacy seemed to be at the forefront of my mind. Little nudges- God winks- led me to pursue this topic. Traditionally, we think of legacy as something left by those who have died. While that is true, I challenge you to consider the different aspects of legacy. There’s something about reading an obituary and learning about the deceased that makes me wonder what my legacy may be. Have I left a legacy now, even though I am alive and well? Is it worthy to remember? Can I be proud of the various memories people will recall? Does it really matter?
I believe that we are living legacies. The choices we make will have a lasting effect on those we encounter each day. That responsibility seems daunting. Realistically, I don’t scrutinize my own behavior every minute of the day, much less criticize others and their choices. That would be ridiculous. However, the impact that we have on society, in general, will help shape the future for younger generations.
When you reflect on the values, lessons, and traditions you practice, reminisce about the mentors who have impacted your life. Intentionally decide to leave a legacy that will encourage and promote good to all of those you encounter.
I would enjoy hearing your thoughts on legacies. Please leave a comment below.
What a fun topic! I think your question was rhetorical, but just in case… you are leaving an amazing legacy! Specifics that come to mind are being a prayer warrior, teaching and modeling creative thinking, and showing Christlike kindness and hospitality.
I am also inspired but other Christian mentors who leave a legacy of a peaceful presence. These people seem to know what’s really important, and they don’t worry much about all the little stuff. Our family tries to practice that through our tradition of a weekly Sabbath – a time to stop producing, planning, or working and to just be. At least weekly, we are all reminded of the gift of rest with God and family.
I try to think of my legacy as the activities that I share with my family!
Patty, your family is very fortunate to have your expertise and wisdom. But don’t forget the many people you have touched over the years.
Thank you Deanna for your kind words! You have touched so many and continue to do so!
Allyson, thank you for the encouragement and compliments. I will strive to continue to live up to those praises. I think you and Caleb are role models. Spending time with God and family will definitely be remembered by your friends and family—especially Haley and Elijah, and other observers.
Great topic. As we age, we think about this more. What am I leaving my children? It’s not the stuff. They don’t want that. It is the way we live and love that is most important to them.
Thank you for responding. I’m sorry it’s taken me so long to get back to you. I’ve been a little busy the last couple of weeks. I concur with you. My mom always said, “Remember the times you had and the lessons you learned from those you were close to-not the things they may have left you.” Kitty, you are a perfect example of a living legacy.